The First Date
May 24, 2010 11:20 AM
Here’s what a girl is looking for on a first date:
- The Center of Your Attention — That means no checking out the cute waitress or scanning the television behind the bar for the scoreboard. You can’t go wrong with nodding your head and smiling a lot.
- Good Conversation — That means let her do most of the talking while you look utterly mesmerized by what she’s saying.
- Space — It’s way too early to be too touch-feely. You can convey your interest in subtle — not slimy — ways by keeping your elbow grazing, knee touching and hand-holding strictly G-rated.
- A Plan — What do you want to do? I don’t know — what do you want to do? Avoid this horrible exchange by having a plan of what you’re doing that night.
- A Goodnight Kiss — Even if a girl doesn’t like you, she wants to know she was irresistible enough for you to want to kiss her.