We never talk…

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If you want your mate to change her behavior, be clear and reasonable, not goofy or mushy. I personally don’t believe a leopard can change it’s spots but, researchers in New Zealand who videotaped 61 couples found that straight forward communication is more likely to lead to long term results. 

A direct approach may seem to backfire at first, but works in the long run. Being indirect, using humor, for instance, can downplay your feelings. (So that’s where I went wrong, dang-it.) “Relying on the soft approach will leave your girlfriend unaware of the nature and severity of the problem,” says study author Nickola Overall, Ph.D., of the University of Auckland. (Men’s Health)

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